My sons FaceTime calls and phone calls are showing up on my phone. The phone does not ring but under the call log I see the calls that he made and received as well as the FaceTime . How can I stop this?
Kind of hard to follow what's happening here but it sounds like you are using the same iCloud ID on both devices. (iCloud and iTunes ID are two different things). You each need to be signed into iCloud on your own device under your own separate iCloud ID. Then you start family sharing with you becoming the organizer and invite your son. Now, go to his device,settings>privacy>turn location services on then down to "share my location" tap that and then from "this device" underneath that it will show you under family, select to share. His device will now appear under the "find my phone" settings in the app as well as the details tab in messages. It will also show in "find my friends" that you can configure to show in the Notification Center.