I hear you on that one... my canned response "Life isn't fair. It wasn?t fair when I was a kid, and it ain?t fair now. Grow up and deal with it." I used to get rolled eyes and attitude. Now they just smile and recite it along with me. (Gotta work on the next generation!)
I saw in in my RSS feeds over Christmas and saved it for the "right time".
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My point in posting it here wasn?t to decree that everyone should use these rules as their own, but rather, that this mother obviously knows her kid and has some sort of open communication with him. You kid(s) may be different - change the rules to fit you/your situation/your kid. But don?t come in here telling everyone that a young teen (or even a pre-teen) isn't old enough or has no "need" for a cellphone. That?s for them and their parents to negotiate. They grow up so fast, it?s true, but you have to prepare them for dealing with the real world and teach them to have real responsibility - you can?t not do that and expect them one day to wake up adjusted, functioning adults.
Time to climb down off my soapbox... have a great evening, D.