What he said she said.
I've been using Fastmail.fm for years now. Great IMAP, handles spam well, and even for the top tier account so that I can use it with my own domain, it's relatively inexpensive.
I use Google for push Calendar, & push contacts, Mobile Me for e-mail. As soon as Google has push for Gmail, I'll ditch Mobile Me, which is not the most reliable. There is a third party push solution for Gmail, for $25/yr. It is called NuevaSync
Did you set your fastmail.fm account up on your iPhone? Our business uses fastmail and I haven't a clue as to how to get it on our iPhones.
Yupper. Been using fastmail.fm on my iPhone from day one. Tr?s easy to set up, too!
My major objection to mome is that even though you could forward custom domains to it...you can't reply from those domains with an alias, and who wants to change email addies at this stage.