I was thinking of that as well, I did not get ALL the music off initially. The option to manually manage my music had been changed. (since getting my hard drive replaced a ton of settings have been changed. My restore was not complete) I *think* I have figured it out for the most part. There are still many songs that I of course manually added to iTunes & were given to me that are just GONE so I suspect I am F***** there....After checking iTunes my settings for "Manually manage music" had been changed. I checked that box and re-added my music and it's working now.
The photos were still an issue last night. There was a issue while syncing the other day and my computer crashed & though my macbook thinks they had been deleted they had not been. I updated my macbook pro (17" from 2011 on 10.9.4) and this morning iPhoto finally asked me if I wanted to erase them. I am really puzzled why the same steps are suddenly working...seems like the photos are syncing properly after a good nights sleep
In the morning when I opened iPhoto and connected my phone it now had a box asking me if I wanted to delete the photos that were already imported and after doing so my phone now syncs properly. I am not entirely sure what settings changed as I did not change them, this all happened after restoring and updating to 7.1.2