Re: how can i spy on my sons texts?
These discussions concern me, I don't like the control freak feeling about them, and am never sure when this behaviour is just sheer nosiness or even paranoia. The one thing I am absolutely sure of,is that any behaviour you wish your children not to do,and monitor for, they will do without your knowledge, or even having an inkling about it , if they really WANT TO !! The community of smart kids is very smart.
That aside, your children have the right to make mistakes by themselves, my three did and they're as ok as anyone else, I did and am fine, anyone that didn't is either unnatural or a liar. Do not spy on your kids, they'll find out and resent it,or if they know already,circumvent it. Give your kids some privacy.