Just got off the phone with 1800MYAPPLE. I was calling to find out how in the world to pre-order my iPad because I was wanting to order one to pick up in person in the Apple store (versus waiting for it to ship to me). The Apple store told me that I could not preorder one for pick up until Apple released a release date. So I was caught in this can't order online to pick up in store and can't preorder in store to pick up in person until there is a release date thing...
This morning I called the store to preorder because the May 7th date was released. They wouldn't allow me to preorder. So I called 1800MYAPPLE and asked just what the heck I was supposed to do to be able to reserve one for pick up in the store since there was no release date and the store wouldn't let me reserve.
They lady basically told me two things. And yes, you're gonna have to take my word for it, so take it for what its worth.
1) The shipping date is officially "BY May 7th".
2) I then asked, "Is the May 7th date for everyone? Or for people recently ordering them like I am today?" She responded by saying, "As far as I know, it is for everyone. However, the 'by' tells me that they are planning on starting to ship them out before the May 7th date, so some people's may be shipped before May 7th, but they all will be shipped BY May 7th.
3) Shipping delivery will happen the SAME DAY that the 3G's are available in store, which she suspects will be May 8th. You won't get your iPad any faster by waiting in line at a store and you would risk not being able to take one home without a preorder.
Take all that for what it's worth. It sounds like at the absolute worst, we'll have our 3G's by May 8th, some people may get them sooner.
Oh and yes, I gave up fighting with the he said/she said order online/pick up in store garbage and just placed my order for the 3G. Man, why does this have to be SO complicated?!?