Technically, your pre-order is not going through Verizon for the handset even when you order at Verizon, its coming from the same place the Apple phones are coming from (as far as i recall, until Verizon store stock takes care of the pick up pre-orders, all the orders come straight from China that are shipped to customers homes/business).
I think Radio Shack was the only place that had a delayed delivery/stock date last year...everyone else got them out to you dependent on when you ordered them.