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Don't bother doing it through the Facebook app...I've had plenty of friends where not everyone synced up, among other problems.
Download the "SmartSync" app. All I did was change a few settings so it only syncs Pictures and Birthdays and it'll match up ALL of your contacts, whether your Contact name matches their Faceboook name or not.
Awesome app.