Our family account is in my wife's name. I am a authorized user on the account and have been able to go get my iphone for the past 3 years without her ever having to be there. I know her social security number and all the address info is the same on my drivers license so I've never had any problems.
Thanks for the advice guys... my name has been added as an authorized user in the account settings on the AT&T website. If it worked for you guys in the past then I should be OK. Now I can just relax and wait til next Thursday. Thanks again for the responses guys.