Alli hopefully you don't mind me posting this here, not intending to hijack this thread. If folks would keep my ten year old son in their thoughts and prayers. Tomorrow we have to take him to a tumor specialist. A couple weeks ago he broke his arm, and an MRI revealed what they are calling for now a "bone tumor".
Needless to say it's been a rough couple of weeks waiting for this appointment as they won't tell us anything.
Interesting how something like this changes your perspective. Last week I was at Five Below picking up some things, and at the register the girl asked if I wanted to donate to their St Jude's fundraising drive. Reflexively I said no, as money is tight. In that split second I looked down at the card she was holding out and the kid on it looked the same age as my son, and his diagnosis said "bone tumor". Needless to say I made a donation that night.
You never want to see the word tumor, but when it's your own kid, well, it's so much harder.
EDITED TO UPDATE:
Long story short is we still don't know. The oncologist was very nice; younger guy, has kids of his own, and really connected with us before getting into the nitty gritty. He didn't sugarcoat anything, but gave us best case/worst case scenarios.
He did some more xrays...it was weird to see the "anamoly" in my sons bone. He basically said that if he was just going off of xrays , he'd be comfortable monitoring it and seeing what happens. However, the MRI gives him pause, as it appears to be a bone tumor on the MRI. So, the only definitive way to know is a biopsy, which is scheduled for a week from monday. So it will be a week of wondering still. Casey did get his cast off today, the break was a very clean break and has healed up nicely.
Lots of info to process and digest. The words "bone cancer" just weren't in my vocabulary. But as I looked around the cancer center today, and saw so many hurting people; all ages, nationalities...definitely not a discriminatory disease.
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