Yeah the IM+ is absolutely horrible at reconnecting since this update. I am actually using Trillian IM, which I also use on my desktop. What I love is that is stores your IM account settings on their server and once you set it up once, you never have to set them up again. I get so sick of setting them up in IM+. I gave up on Beejive a long time ago. Trillian isn't iOS tested yet, but it works great and actually resumes very quickly.