Originally Posted by
coolAppleuser I'm not sure what she's done.
At first I was using my Nexus 6p to text her. Then I switched my SIM card to an iPhone 6s Plus and still have the same issue.
The settings>messages have identical settings. The 6s Plus receives messages the normal way.
One thing I noticed was that when I send from her phone to mine, the message comes through as her contact name as it is stored in my contacts list. When I send from my phone to hers, it shows my actual name instead of my name as it is saved in her contact list.
Has she maybe created 2 contact cards for you in her contacts?
"Me and Whoever" is something someone created. It's not going to show that otherwise.
It sounds like a group message. When on the "me and whoever" thread, tap the i in the upper right corner, then scroll down and tap "leave this conversation".