Is there a way to have to iphone with the ringer with no text tone only vibrate same with calls because i would like silent to actually be silent and not vibrate only
Well you can do ringer with no vibrate.
Settings -> Sounds -> Under "Silent," switch "Vibrate" to off. When you flip the silent switch (above the volume rocker), the phone will be totally silent.
If you want it to be only vibrate, no sound, repeat the above steps and flip "Vibrate" to on.
Just make sure the silent switch is flipped on (orange should be showing).
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