Thanks guys. The house feels safer from a backup prospective. My wife would be there, my two large dogs would be there, etc. but at the same time, my place is rather small and I can't hide the fact that I have a big tv, surround sound, Xbox, etc. in the living room. Having them stay outside might be a good option.
There is a Starbucks close by that also might work as a meeting place. I could take my wife with me. My concern there is having someone try to grab the iPad and run.
As far as opening the box goes, I was thinking I will tell them that once I have the money in hand, the box is theirs to open if they wish, and if it contains anything other than a working iPad, I will give the money back on the spot and return the iPad to apple.
I completely believe in not having them meet at your home ever, unless its the home itself your selling. Its doesn't matter if theres someone there with you , its just not great for the buyer or seller to give out addresses. With that said i sold my iPad 2 within 18 hours after i put it on craigslist. The best way to do it is:
1.Meet at a close location so you don't waste gas for one, and two so they'll be other people there. Starbucks like your saying is great, thats where I've always met.
2. take pictures of any damage of the product and have a description posted of the condition on craigslist with pictures. And unless its new sealed in box, you need to have pictures up of the product on craigslist.
3. don't over price it because you'll get no response. If it an iPad 2 and you don't at least a hundred dollars off for it being used, you most likely won't get a response. I personally recommend go a hundred dollars under new buying from store price and then 25 dollars off that, because you get replies like crazy because its not a normal asking price so people think it looks so much cheaper.
4. when you meet them, they'll want to see it taken out and made sure it works and everything so do it for them and show it works and the damage (if there is any). and that it is in fact the iPad you said it was. because who wouldn't want to make sure of this before they bought an iPad?
5. and most important step, ONLY meet up at the place you want and for cash only. You get so many offers to ship it off or scams and an exchange for places to meet, if they are really wanting to buy it they'll come to you and they'll bring cash. you'll get tons of offers that aren't your conditions so just ignore them. I personally enjoy telling them off