Well, while itunes was recovering my iphone i decided to look back at all of the instructions and i realized that I forgot to put the "activate iphone" thing....FML!!!
Also while I was writing this it finished and it is now the way it was except that now every time the screen goes black for energy saving the apple logo shows up and immediately goes back to the "locked" screen. Actually it did that a few times and then stopped... I haven't touched it while that was happening at all.
EDIT: I have started again and this time my iphone is stuck with the apple logo and an empty loading bar...
Another EDIT: i tried again but it fails if i choose activate option.