Well regrettfully looks like my game will be going back
Activision
This function was left out of the game by design. You can invite your friends to play online with you in a match if you would like to play with your friends. For an inquiry such as this relating to the design aspect of the game, we suggest that you post onto the developer forums at:
www.infinityward.com.
So looks like our group wont be having any lunchtime battles which is 80% of the reason I buy this game. C'est la vie