It was a lot easier than thought it would be. Lloft still had to deal with all my stupid questions! Like she said it is just a matter of movibg your music,photos and apps over to the new computer. Then on your new computer you great a dummy contact and a dummy event on iCal. Once you sync the phone it with the new computer it will give you the option to merge the phones contacts with tv new computers.
And I just repeated everything lloft just said! Oops