Ok, I don't mean to put her in danger. She has family there and they'd go with her to a public place. We have found friends and family with computers to try and help. Seems that even with my knowledge of what's going on, they can't follow directions! They either can't figure out how to update iTunes or place the phone in recovery mode. Public computers don't have iTunes or they aren't updated and no one has authority to update it where we have tried! We have tried a lot of things! Sorry that I was hoping that, in this community of people knowledgeable of Apple products, there would be someone that is honest and would help me out. It is a small town. Seems I'm getting a lot of negative thrown my way. Believe me this was a last ditch effort on my part. I will just tell her to wait till she comes back in a couple months for me to fix it! Thanks though.