We keep getting messages intended for each other.

[iMore Question]

example: a message is sent to her... she gets the message AND I also get the message. How do I shut this off?

 

[SwitchBeach]

Are you sharing the same Apple ID? If so, don't do that. Use separate Apple IDs for iMessaging and iCloud.

Also, go to Settings > Messages > Send & Receive > and check to make sure that you don't have each other's phone number or email addresses checked.

 

[Ledsteplin]

You can share the iTunes ID so you can share purchases. But iCloud, iMessage and Facetime ID's need to be different.