[iMore Question]

she has an I phone 5 s and I would like to see who'm she is texting with and what the texts are thank you zoran

[kch50428]

Conduct random physical device inspections... have her give you the phone, unlocked... and look at them on the phone... or... link her phone number with an instance of Message on an iDevice you control...

iOS and OS X: Link your phone number and Apple ID for use with FaceTime and iMessage - Apple Support

How can I link my iPhone number with Messages on my iPad, iPod touch, or Messages for Mac?
When you sign in to Messages with your Apple ID on your iPhone, you link your phone number to your Apple ID. If you then sign in to Messages with the same Apple ID on your iPad, iPod touch, or Mac, Messages will link that device to your phone number as well.

[iOS Gravity]

Depending on your carrier you can get parental control programs to monitor your daughter.

[SwitchBeach]

Yes, however, typically those programs will not work with iMessage.

[Just_Me_D]

Conduct random physical device inspections... have her give you the phone, unlocked... and look at them on the phone... or... link her phone number with an instance of Message on an iDevice you control........

'Nuf said!!!!

[iOS Gravity]

Yes, however, typically those programs will not work with iMessage.

We do not know for sure if the OP was asking about iMessages or SMS. Since Keith explained the iMessage part, I filled the OP in about carrier parental control programs.

[SwitchBeach]

Right I just wanted to add the caveat for the OP that if the child is using iMessage, those carrier programs will possibly not work.

[mitchellisaac]

There are many apps available online by using which you can monitor your child's text messages.

[howardgray111]

Use an app which can track your child's text messages. I think there are lots of child monitoring apps available online these days.

[Bigeric23]

You might want to look at this, too:

How to Monitor Your Kid?s iPhone or Android Text Messages | How Life Works

[Bartman27]

I came across a site that offers a program to monitor your child's phone. Pumpic is the name of the company. Just google it. It may suit your needs and it looks thorough.

[txundertaker]

that doesnt work i have tried that

[txundertaker]

KCH,

I have tried this and it only worked for like one day, can u give me some pointers

[kch50428]

I've given you all I know... try some of the other suggestions above.