Since sound is a matter of personal taste , if you find Bose to be high quality so be it, I'm not going to tell you anything different.
As for headphones , again, really sennheiser along with many other manufacturers make much better headphones. I think beats are even better than the Bose headphones, I liked the QC2s better than the QC3s anyway. I prefer in-ear monitors for travel I don't want the big over the ear thing, shure se535s are my monitor of choice, but they set you back 550 a piece, the se840s are $1000 and awesome , but many manufacturers of pick over Bose , Westone, sennheiser, UMs for in ear as well.
Either case, Bose makes a nice package, their trick though is to make the sound dynamic by basically making the lows louder and the highs louder, which is why the sound is muddy when you add more power... Also why the sound you think is better in small rooms , short of it this isn't quality sound IMHO. But I digress as stated if you like their sound that much get something from them and remove a required feature. I was just giving you my personal recommendation.