iTunes, Music, Ringtones
I had all my music and a lot of purchased ringtones on my 3GS. When I synched the 4S, I lost all the music and most of the ringtones. I bought more ringtones, and learned how to make new ringtones. I set the 4S to manage music and rintones manually, and drag and dropped the new ones in.
I finally located the external drive housing all the music. I was unable to drag and drop albums at a time, just one song, so I unchecked manage manually and synched, with the external drive connected. So all the music transfered, and all the ringtones disappeared. So I synched the ringtones, and have now lost the music again.
Any time I try to do anything it says "if you do that, all music and movies and whatever on this device will be deleted."
I don't know how to get all the stuff on there and make it stay on there!