My BB had a "bedside" mode. It would turn off all notification and dim the screen. I already got a nightstand type app . Does the iPhone have anything like this?
You can go to settings and turn vibrate off so when you put the phone in silent you will get no vibrate.
That doesn't work... when the phone is switched to silent mode, it always vibrates... has to... otherwise, how would you know you were getting called/texted/notified?