Event Reminder Questions & Snooze

[hotrod#AC]

How do I use event reminders? I don't want to have to accept or decline appointments. They are my appointments that I made on my calendar why should I have to accept the meeting? Can I stop this procedure?

Also how do I snooze event reminders? The only options I see is to accept decline or maybe. I want to here the reminder again soon. Why else would I set a reminder?

Thanks